Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Thoughts after another meditation retreat

Example of a meditation hall in the middle of the woods

So last month, after taking a break from work, I went on another meditation retreat.  As I mentioned previously, the last time I went it was pretty much the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and this time, I’d say something similar but for different reasons :)

 

This iteration, the mental challenge was much more pronounced compared to the physical one.  One has plenty of time to wrestle with ones own demons over the course of nearly two weeks.  The main one on this occasion seemed to be my fear, and how many of my actions were (on a subtle level) driven by fear.  The most difficult part of this realization was recognizing it was there and yet the recognization not being enough to make it go away.  Seeing how deep the issue is, and how it’s something that will take vigilance on a moment-to-moment basis to change.  I did all I could do – attempt to maintain awareness and equanimity of what was happening as the feelings arose, and inevitably, passed away.

 

Few other random thoughts:

1) I’m quite amazed that in the world of meditation, these retreats are basically like kindergarten, while for myself and at least a few people I know, the rigor and discipline involved here is near unfathomable lol

2) Important distinction between swimming and ‘swim-ology’ – Swim-ology is studying about swimming in a book but never touching the water.  I spent many years approaching meditation like swim-ology, reading everything there was to read on the subject, but seldom actually sitting.  As I am in the process of switching course a bit, I’m noticing a massive difference between swimming and swim-ology in terms of how my day to day life is impacted :)

 

I’m still not sold on the concept of doing this in such an intensive manner and would not recommend it to everyone (in fact, every time I finish one, I have no idea if it’ll be my last).  However, I cannot stress enough the value silence and introspection (free from dogma, religion, etc) has had on my life, and would definitely recommend these elements to anyone. 

5 friends after a long period of silence

1 comment:

Mariette said...

Beautiful piece, B. Thank you for the sincerity. I sometimes wonder if I'll ever overcome the fear of swimming without the swim-ology phase. "Just do it" continues to ring true every day.